I am not Josua - but there the text allows multiple approaches as Mentor. A good mentor would challenge you to build a good eco and fleet and bring up some battles at your doorstep, but will not enter your area and try to destroy you.
So expect some battleships next to your colonies before turn 30, but you don't have to fear a strike by the Mentor.
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